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Obliterate Caregiver Stress

How to Banish Stress and Live a Relaxed, Comfortable Lifestyle as a Caregiver coping with Alzheimer's in your family

If you provide care for a parent, spouse or elderly family member, you are unquestionably under a lot of pressure and stress. The fact is most caregivers provide family care with very little support:

  • physical,
  • emotional, and
  • financial

Compound this lack of support with the problem that caregivers like yourself often do not have enough knowledge about services, programs, and products that can help them, resulting in caregivers that are:

  • frustrated
  • tired and
  • depressed.

When you are caring for others, taking care of yourself and your own needs are vital. You must stop sacrificing your own peace of mind and start taking care of yourself…because if something happens to you, who’s going to take care of your loved one?

Research on stress has confirmed that caregivers are in the highest percentile for long-term stress.

Similarly, studies on stress interventions have overwhelmingly confirmed that of all the things that you can do to neutralize your stress Guided Imagery is hands down the most effective intervention. (you can check for yourself on Google and about.com).

This is very important because, stress is quite literally a killer. The Alzheimer’s Association used to publish a statistic that said “Over half of all caregivers died before the person they were caring for!”

That statistic becomes understandable when you read that:

“People with long-term stress are at a much greater risk for heart attack and heart disease - at a rate 4 times that of the average person”

 

“Prolonged stress puts individuals at double the risk of Stroke”

 

Many studies have found a higher incidence of cancer in caregivers under long-term stress.

 

Study after study showed higher rates of diabetes, fibromyalgia, osteoarthritis, flu and pneumonia, as well as many other auto-immune related disorders

 

Most common of all is clinical depression: not only are caregivers at much greater risk for depression, but in studies of types of caregivers – those taking care of a person with Alzheimer’s are twice as likely to be depressed than even regular           caregivers. ( I think of it as having your number come up twice in row on the roulette           wheel)

 

But it doesn’t have to be you. You can take action right now!

I WANT TO GIVE YOU A FREE GUIDED IMAGERY CD DESIGNED EXCLUSIVELY FOR CAREGIVERS. BUT THERE IS A CATCH. (AND A LOOPHOLE) 

The catch is you and I are teaming up together for 10-months. The sheer volume of money saving tricks and care management tools are too much to deliver all at once. We need to tackle this problem in a systematic way.

The loophole is you can cancel at anytime. You will be billed $19.95 every 31 days, and at the end of 10-months it is going to stop, and you will re-elvalute your needs, and determine if you want to continue, and in what capcity?

This CD was originally commissioned by the University of Southern California: Los Angeles Caregiver Resource Center and funded by the Los Angeles County Area on Aging. It was the first Guided Imagery CD designed specifically for caregivers and remains the only Guided Imagery CD for caregivers designed, written and recorded by a Gerontologist.

Bellruth Naparstek the Country's most renowned Guided Imagery practitioner with an amazing collection of her own guided imagery CDs on a wide variety of medical topics: said the following about Caregiver Relief

This is an excellent stress relief CD, with five tracks of first-rate guided imagery by an expert in Alzheimer’s, with years of experience caring for the elderly and helping soothe the stresses of their families. Each meditation is a calming, uplifting gem, and his voice is wonderful too - gentle, naturally comforting and very easy to relax into - a pleasure to listen to! Playing time: 74 minutes

I AM GIVING YOU THIS CD AS AN INCENTIVE TO JOIN MY 10 MONTH CAREGIVERRELIEF MEMBERSHIP PROGRAM.

I have poured everything that I learned in the past 15 years of working with AD sufferers and their caregivers into a monthly program that contains:

Every scrap of insider information that I have accumulated over the years as a committee member of the Alzheimer’s Association, an Executive Director of Assisted Living communities and as a private geriatric care manager.

Every money saving trick and angle that I know. Including: how to get Medicare to pay for almost anything, how to get adult day care for half of what everyone else pays, free respite care, and so much more

Step by step instructions for all those complex programs that seem to be designed to keep you out (VA Aid and Attendance benefits, Adult Day Programs, Medicaid, etc.

Every month you will get:

A new downloadable guided imagery recording

A member’s only, exclusive website for your eyes only with ALL of your questions answered.

An Alzheimer’s newsletter loaded with tons of critical caregiver tips and tricks

A summary of the latest research on Alzheimer’s and Caregiving. Including current drug trials and how to enroll

A list of new websites, blogs and videos for Caregivers

Free Ebooks which would otherwise cost you $30 - $100

And much much more

Look what other people have said about Caregiver Relief

“My husband has Alzheimer’s and has Sundowning. I am 67 and it’s hard for me to control him when he wants to leave the house in the evening. Thanks to your CD, I do not worry anymore, about any of it! In fact, I just started walking with him when he wants to go... My doctor says my blood pressure much better and I credit my new relaxed attitude. – Felicia
“Thank you Mr. Vanderhider, I want to share with you that I still remember the day I started laughing again. It was about a week after my sister gave me your CD I was in the kitchen and my dad was pestering me to feed him again before I had even finished washing the dishes from lunch. Instead of yelling at him and telling him that he just ate, I laughed and asked him what he wanted…and now it has been six months and everything is different now, I don’t know how I survived as long as I did. Thank you so much” – Jennifer.
“I am so grateful for your work and dedication to people like me. As a caregiver for my mom I have no support from my siblings and am all alone. Thank God for your CD it is only a small exaggeration to say you saved my life. Please keep me posted when you release your next CD” – Tabitha
“Wow, each track was better than the one before! My favorite part is the progressive relaxation. I have trouble not falling asleep when listening, but ironically when it finishes a few minutes later I feel energized like I am shot out of a canon! It is so refreshing” – John J.
“Thanks I had almost given up hope. Since getting your Caregiver Relief CD I rarely get sick anymore and was even able to get off of my anti-depressants” – Susan
“You’re CD literally changed my life…I thought I was going to have to put mom in a nursing home to protect her because I ashamed to say, I was afraid that I was going to lose my temper and hurt her” – Simone S.


As a gerontologist, it is so gratifying to hear from people that their circumstances are improved and their life is better that I am willing to give this CD away. I want you to have it and use it. I am so confident that it will improve your outlook on life and give you tons more energy that I am giving you a free 90-day trial. You can cancel from the program, not be charged a cent, and keep the CD and the bonus books as my gift trying it. If you are excited about continuing with the program, do nothing and you will be billed every month a mere $19.95. You will receive a new downloadable guided imagery recording along with the jam packed newsletter and other bonuses like e-books, articles, and websites.

I only ask that you help me out with some of the shipping and handling. For $4.95 towards the shipping and handling I will send you the full CD which includes a 6 panel fold-out with a detailed explanation of how to get to most out of the CD, it has a detailed explanation of guided imagery, information about gerontology, and a diagram and complete explanation of how our bodies respond to stress via the hypothalamus, pituitary and adrenal system.

Remember, this uniquely designed CD was carefully crafted to not only provide immediately stress relief in the moment, but also written in such a way that each track builds on the one before. Caregiver Relief, used properly, will literally reprogram your subconscious response to stress, so that after a few weeks you will find your entire attitude and mood renewed.

Don’t be surprised when you find yourself laughing out loud and things that used to make you grind your teeth. You will be smiling to yourself remembering times that used to frustrate you to no end.

In fact, I will let you in on a very common response: when you notice that you have a renewed easy-going attitude you will think that you finally adjusted to your circumstances as a caregiver, and it will not even occur to you to credit the CD. I have seen it in 8 out 10 clients and it just proves that the subconscious programming of the CD worked perfectly. The change in the subconscious is so natural and so complete that the reformatting of your stress response system feels perfectly normal.

You can just scroll down to the end of this letter to find the sign up button, right now. But I want to at least once talk about how finely crafted this CD is.

1. English Garden.

A classic guided imagery for immediate stress reduction. Excellent for when your time is limited and you need a quick boost. This track starts with some breath work to slow your heart rate and then moves into a progressive physical relaxation from head to toe that leaves you feeling like you spent the day at the spa. But it doesn’t stop there. You are then transported to a beautiful English Garden where you spend timeless moments experiencing that forgotten childlike wonder that we all have buried in our memories. In that tranquil frame of mind, subconscious suggestions are given to reinforce your coping skills.

Repeated listening to this track will result in an overall calmer frame of mind. In short order you will be smiling and laughing at the things that used to make you want to pull your hair out.

2. Watercourse.

This is a longer progressive relaxation for releasing tension in the body using multiple techniques to establish a deep physical trance. By ‘stacking’ relaxation techniques a profound level of relaxation is reached. This is followed by subconscious suggestions for eliminating self-defeating thoughts and plants in your mind a conscious commitment to taking better care of yourself. One of the effects of chronic stress is tunnel vision. Stressed out caregivers often complain that they can’t “see” a way out of their situation. Guided Imagery frees your creativity and expands your repertoire.

Repeated listening to this track will build bulletproof self confidence and heightened awareness of the importance of self-care, and before you know you will be doing the things that you used to wish you had time for.

3. Marionette.

Starting with an eye fascination induction, this session uses “future pacing” a neurolinguistic programming technique for visualizing and manifesting a successful and happy future. This is followed by imagery that will bring you special guidance from your subconscious (your inner guide). This intermediate level guided imagery uses more advanced and powerful techniques. It is recommended that you have some prior experience with guided imagery, but not necessary.

Repeated listening to this track will stimulate your subconscious to manifest amazing changes in your life. Through this powerful alchemy of NLP, metaphysics and hypnosis if you can imagine it, your subconscious will create it. Get ready for some big changes…for the better!

4. Summer Morning at the Beach.

Building on previous sessions we use a beautiful deserted beach to completely unwind and then find a unique way to permanently discard negative feelings and frustrations. This advanced level session is probably the best ‘special place’ imagery ever. Then with subtle “deepening” techniques you are primed for a powerful imagery experience that will free you of the accumulation of negative thoughts, and emotions.

Through repeated listening of this track your subconscious will be purged of the accumulation of negativity and self criticism. We all have an inner self-critic; with some people it’s really bad. Yours, no matter how critical, will be banished and replaced with renewed self-respect and self-worth.

Click on the link now and I will mail you at no additional charge 2 books as a fast action bonus.

“Caring for a Person with Alzheimer’s Disease” A 136 book by the National Institute on Aging. This book tells you how to:

Understand how AD changes a person

Learn how to cope with these changes

Plan for the future

Take care of yourself

Find out about helpful resources, such as websites, support groups, government agencies and adult day care programs

Cope with late-stage AD

And much more

"How to Hire and Train Help in the Home” workbook. A unique book that was printed by the Alzheimer’s Association. Printed on heavy stock paper it has tear out pages for things like:

Job application

Interview questions

Duty rosters

Emergency contact template

Caregiver self-care tool

And a lot of other essential information

Remember for just the shipping and handling, you are going to get a one-of-a-kind CD, two great bonus books and a 10-month membership program that will provide massive support for you as a caregivers. All this for $19.95 per month. And I promise, you can potentially save hundreds of dollars from the many tips and ideas you find in these volumes and in your monthly newsletter, and who could put a price on the value of inner peace and cool quiet confidence?

Don't worry your information will never, for any reason be given out.



Shipping and Handling for this order is $4.95
Note: Your Paypal account will be charged $19.95 starting in 31 days,
and will be charged monthly for 10 months! You may cancel at any time.

P.S. Remember, I am taking all of the risk. You are getting the full-length CD and two great books and you can cancel anytime and not be charged another cent. What have you got to lose?

P.P.S. Warning: these wonderful FREE bonus books are in limited quantities. When we run out - that's all there is! And I have some other free gifts that are just too few to mention, but they are indespensible for caregivers, so the early bird gets the worm on this one.

**Note: If you elect to purchase this package, you understand that your Paypal account will be charged every month for 10-months or until you cancel. You can cancel at any time by simply logging in to your Paypal account and canceling, or click on the Help Desk link inside the members area.